So, picture this: you're attracted, you want sex, but your body isn't cooperating. No physical issues show up in doctors' tests, and you still get morning or masturbation-induced erections... but when it counts, you freeze. If that sounds familiar, you might be dealing with psychological erectile dysfunction (ED)—and it’s more common than you think.

Let’s be real—libido is tricky. One day you're feeling flirty and connected, and the next? You'd rather do literally anything else than think about sex.

If you’re suddenly just not into it—and you’re wondering what happened—you’re not alone. Lots of women experience dips in desire, and it doesn’t mean anything is “wrong” with you. But if it feels frustrating, confusing, or is starting to impact your relationship, it’s worth looking into.